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    Thursday, September 10, 2009

LIVE EVERY DAY LIKE IT’S SEPTEMBER 10.


What were you doing on September 10, 2001?

Sure you remember where you were and what you were doing on September 11. But what about the day before? Within days after the towers fell, I couldn’t remotely remember what I did on September 10.

At 8:46 a.m. on 9/11 my daughter Sarah was at Ground Zero. She was on a bus that had just pulled up to the base of Tower One. That’s when she heard the explosion. Looking out the window, she watched a truck lift off the ground from the impact. Fifteen minutes later she saw the second plane strike, and much of the horror that followed.

For the next 90 minutes I didn’t know if she was alive or dead. Finally, at 10:30 my wife got the phone call we were waiting for. Sarah was safe, in the middle of the Hudson River, on a ferry bound for Weehawken, NJ, crying as she watched the smoke rising above lower Manhattan. It took her two hours to walk from Weehawken to Hoboken. But, as she told me later, at least the fashion gods were smiling that day. She was wearing flats.

Her name was posted on a survivor list. Our family, unlike so many thousands of others, would get to hug, and hold one another, and say I love you on September 12.

My life, as so many others, changed after 9/11. I had actually just completed a year’s sabbatical and was setting up interviews so I could rejoin the rat race. I decided I wasn’t ready. I’m still not ready. I like to think of myself as a recovering rat.

I had been writing my first novel during that sabbatical, but I put it down, thinking who needs another murder mystery at a time like this?

I adopted a new approach to life. Live every day like it’s September 10.

That doesn’t mean live for the moment, for tomorrow you may die. You may well be alive tomorrow, but the world as you know and love it can change in the blink of an eye. I don’t remember a single thing about September 10, 2001, and I don’t want any more days in my life to pass as anonymously as that one did.

Little by little, like the rest of America, I came back from 9/11. I was lucky enough to find Vitamin Angels, a charity that saves the lives of millions of children around the world by providing them with the vitamins and nutrients that we take for granted. I still work with them today. At some time I’ll tell you a lot more about what we do.

In 2002, I went back to that novel. Much to my amazement it was published. I’m now finishing my fourth book, and some of the people who read them have told me I’m pretty funny.

So you’re probably wondering who wrote this piece. What happened to the guy who makes us laugh? Sorry. Every now and then the closet philosopher gets loose. Since 9/11 I’ve managed to live every day like it’s September 10th. And what better time to time to pass on the message than today?

And now, if you’ll excuse me, I’m going to call my daughter and hug my new dog.

Marshall posted on September 10, 2009 10:06 AM
Comments

It's funny....but I can't remember a thing about Sept 10, 2001 either...however, I remember every detail of Sept 11, 2001 beginning at 8:46am...

Sharon Perez posted on September 10, 2009 11:43 AM

It's funny...like you, I also don't remember a thing about Sept 10...however, I remember mostly everything about 9/11/01 starting at 8:46am...

Sharon Perez posted on September 10, 2009 11:53 AM

Like you said, I have nary a memory of September 10th.

But, being a New Jersian, there is more than I care to remember about September 11.

AndreAnna posted on September 10, 2009 1:11 PM

What a good philosophy. And I love the idea behind Vitamin Angels.

Shelly posted on September 10, 2009 1:40 PM

I remeber Sept. 9, 2001--had my first and last yard sale, my best friend gave birth to her first child, my husband asked for a divorce.

Spetember 10, I stayed home with the two kids crying and trying to figure out what to do. Went around the corner and spent some time with my parents.

Then the next day, I couldn't sleep and woke up early, turned on the tv and immediately called my mom. Called my best friend her hubby was an air traffic controller at Langley AFB, he had to leave her in the hospital alone.

Some of the most powerful events that happened in my life, happened within the next 6 months of that tragedy.

I, personally, am glad you gave up the rat race. You have touched many lives not only with your charity work, but by giving us a place to escape reality in your writings, as well.

Thank you. Today's post was beautiful and insightful.

debb posted on September 10, 2009 3:10 PM

September 10, 2001 is a total blur. I can't remember what I ate for lunch yesterday. ;)

But you are right, Marshall. We need to take the time for the things that are most important in life.

Nice blog.

Jan posted on September 10, 2009 3:11 PM

Oh God, what a horrific experience for a father (and mother) to have to go through. Thank God she was one of the lucky ones, as I'm sure you do every day.

Thanks for this wonderful advice. It's SO, SO important.

Suzy Voices posted on September 10, 2009 4:08 PM

Marshall, today's blog was for me the best thing I have read of yours so far. I would like to add that the true cost of September 11th is what we lost as a nation allowing the constitution to be bent in ways never imagined by its writers.

Johnny posted on September 10, 2009 8:05 PM